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Essays and field-tested practices on relationships, intimacy and self-knowledge.

How to Touch a Woman with Your Fingers: Anatomy, Rhythm, and Feedback
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How to Touch a Woman with Your Fingers: Anatomy, Rhythm, and Feedback

A grounded look at the anatomy of the clitoris and the front vaginal wall, tempo, pressure, the role of lubricant, and how to truly hear your partner — so that touch with your fingers becomes her favorite practice.

· 12 min read
Female Masturbation: Self-Discovery, Psychology, and Evidence-Based Health Benefits
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Female Masturbation: Self-Discovery, Psychology, and Evidence-Based Health Benefits

What science says about female masturbation: effects on the brain, hormones, and mental health, evidence-based benefits, techniques from major studies, and a debunking of myths.

· 10 min read
How to Give a Blowjob: Technique, Anatomy, and Comfort for Both Partners
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How to Give a Blowjob: Technique, Anatomy, and Comfort for Both Partners

Anatomy, technique, rhythm, and the comfort of both partners: a detailed guide on how to give a blowjob so that it feels good for both the one receiving and the one giving.

· 12 min read